tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post243948996332599679..comments2023-12-25T11:56:28.042-07:00Comments on In The Real World Venus vs. Mars: He is NegativeShelle-BlokThoughtshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05118555873275829720noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-73344813036424100242010-04-05T02:13:01.565-06:002010-04-05T02:13:01.565-06:00Thanks guys for the comments...
Sorry for the del...Thanks guys for the comments...<br /><br />Sorry for the delay in the respond. This has been one busy weekend..and yeah, Shelle, good to see you back from the wilderness, how was the hike?Anjenyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11746822979694584318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-24681692646189722442010-04-05T02:11:33.550-06:002010-04-05T02:11:33.550-06:00Shelle...I don't mind my hub venting his frust...Shelle...I don't mind my hub venting his frustrations and all. I even don't mind him vent about our neighbors sometimes, it's when he practically keep turning our conversations into the topic of our neighbors that just drives me nuts. I'm starting to wonder sometimes if there's even any topic at all we can talk about that might be totally "neighbor-topic-free".Anjenyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11746822979694584318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-37457330787517592522010-04-05T02:09:04.857-06:002010-04-05T02:09:04.857-06:00Heelsnstocking, 3 times eh? I'd go nuts too i...Heelsnstocking, 3 times eh? I'd go nuts too if I were you.<br /><br />Sorry to hear about your mom. It's hard being around negative people, but I think it's even harder when that person is family. I feel for ya girl.Anjenyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11746822979694584318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-38804938428471642702010-04-05T02:06:42.643-06:002010-04-05T02:06:42.643-06:00Anon...I hear ya. What you described there is exa...Anon...I hear ya. What you described there is exactly some of the conversation we have when the hub gets home. Very frustrating.Anjenyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11746822979694584318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-19252927653984582832010-04-05T02:04:43.981-06:002010-04-05T02:04:43.981-06:00LOL Sage...that is a very tempting idea.LOL Sage...that is a very tempting idea.Anjenyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11746822979694584318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-22543615084820538232010-04-04T18:27:32.142-06:002010-04-04T18:27:32.142-06:00Oh anj that sucks especially because I'm proba...Oh anj that sucks especially because I'm probably a bit like your husband when it comes to some things. For instance, if my neighbors were frustrating me I'd have to vent...and all I have is my hubs to vent with, if I don't then I tell someone I shouldn't and that is bad.<br /><br />So I get it...but this helps me to see my poor husbands point of view of it all and I am going to try to be better at this!<br /><br />Thanks for writing this!Shelle-BlokThoughtshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05118555873275829720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-70030905689732982212010-04-02T09:56:26.364-06:002010-04-02T09:56:26.364-06:00My spouse is generally a positive and optimistic g...My spouse is generally a positive and optimistic guy. However, I can sort of relate to this issue regarding neighbors. <br /><br />For the past several years we have had issues with various neighbors who have had family/friends move in and out of their homes. They seem to feel that the front of our house is their personal parking space, rather than making use of their own garage, driveway, etc. For the most part, we know and get along with our neighbors, other than this issue. For whatever reason, it makes my husband nuts! He has tried talking to them, and eventually sending complaints to the HOA. <br /><br />Honestly, it makes me crazy because I have to hear about this EVERY time a car is there. Because I work from home (albeit in the middle of the house, so I am NOT looking out the front window), it's like he expects me to know to whom the car belongs. He can't let it go. It makes him nuts, and hence makes me nuts. We love our home (except for this ongoing issue). However, he goes off about wanting to move over this. We have to deal with these people, so I don't really want him talking to them right after he has just gone off on me about them. Ugh. <br /><br />On all other things, he really is an optimist, so I guess this is a small thing overall. However, there have been times when it has ruined an evening because he has obsessed over it and let it ruin his mood. I too try to change the subject, avoid it, etc.<br /><br />Good luck!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-70417411281362621392010-04-02T07:42:43.638-06:002010-04-02T07:42:43.638-06:00you could set fire to your neighbors house and bur...you could set fire to your neighbors house and burn them out then Hubs wouldn't have them to talk about anymore!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com