tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post290116586891677925..comments2023-12-25T11:56:28.042-07:00Comments on In The Real World Venus vs. Mars: What's the reason?Shelle-BlokThoughtshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05118555873275829720noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-72757889732393889682009-04-03T00:39:00.000-06:002009-04-03T00:39:00.000-06:00Oh Julie, that is so true. Good point. Before yo...Oh Julie, that is so true. Good point. Before you're married it's so fun because it's ALL ya got! <BR/><BR/>Great point, girlfriend!!!The Crash Test Dummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16893801583172018597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-21560900605877462872009-04-02T22:49:00.000-06:002009-04-02T22:49:00.000-06:00Sally- you kill me! Yup, last time I checked, Dal...Sally- you kill me! Yup, last time I checked, Dalen was the one laying in the bed next to me.MakingChangeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08174581407180710720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-15964562222464133852009-04-02T19:29:00.000-06:002009-04-02T19:29:00.000-06:00Oh my heck Julie. Are you sure you are married to ...Oh my heck Julie. Are you sure you are married to Dallin because I think that you may be married to Ken.Sally Younghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15571672996463488308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-37937062137174141682009-04-02T19:05:00.000-06:002009-04-02T19:05:00.000-06:00Ok, my ex and I NEVER, EVER kissed unless it was i...Ok, my ex and I NEVER, EVER kissed unless it was in bed to have sex, however, he was as intimate as a potato. (And for the record, non-intimate potatoes = divorce.) My current hub and I can't stop touching, kissing, grabbing, etc... the kids think it's DISGUSTING. I think we're a good example to them of what a great loving couple looks like. And hell, if we have sex later that night hooray. And if we don't... there's always tomorrow. It's not realistic to have sex every single day forever, but that doesn't mean we can't make-out kiss every day!! Right? Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04974251468371326729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-18331085510216233052009-04-02T14:50:00.000-06:002009-04-02T14:50:00.000-06:00Yes! Exactly! Same! And it kind of drives me nuts...Yes! Exactly! Same! And it kind of drives me nuts. . .Rachel Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14426183215612921121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-60211631705410969322009-04-02T12:28:00.000-06:002009-04-02T12:28:00.000-06:00DaddyGeekBoy--nice to have you over...lol...but He...DaddyGeekBoy--nice to have you over...lol...but Heidi's suggestion was classic right? Too funny!<BR/><BR/>TentCamper--honesty is such a great quality...I get you men I do...but sometimes i want to just touch you, tickle you with kisses, and have you hold me without having to undo and take off everything or clean anything up...<BR/><BR/>The Blonde DUCK...I'M SO SORRY...no hours to MAKE-OUT? I feel for ya...the best time EVA!!!<BR/>Sorry...<BR/><BR/>But I also understand...as Julie said...I understand I have a responsibility for my guys happiness...and that equals sex for him...so I get it! :)Shelle-BlokThoughtshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05118555873275829720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-22679727248509902942009-04-02T12:26:00.000-06:002009-04-02T12:26:00.000-06:00This comment has been removed by the author.Shelle-BlokThoughtshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04348925911858411809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-62992030106644749582009-04-02T11:58:00.000-06:002009-04-02T11:58:00.000-06:00I'm hearing you loud and clear Julie!!! Reading t...I'm hearing you loud and clear Julie!!! Reading the books has made me want to get back to the make outs too (that is making out without it going any further). Gotta love it!Shane & Lainahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03673917201714378473noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-25654622453351226502009-04-02T11:28:00.000-06:002009-04-02T11:28:00.000-06:00This has been a great discussion. I'd like to tha...This has been a great discussion. I'd like to thank our THREE men for stopping by. You've been sorely underrepresented on the site. I hope you'll stop by more often ;) <BR/><BR/>I think I like Heidi's answer though cause it's funny!Andreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08342109839956458589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-62387210945115449012009-04-02T11:21:00.000-06:002009-04-02T11:21:00.000-06:00Oh yeah! Good call, Julie.I love smooching. I wish...Oh yeah! Good call, Julie.<BR/><BR/>I love smooching. I wish I could talk my man into never ending smooch-a-thon, but he's so darn goal-oriented. I mean, I like goals. Really I do. But I don't mind meandering on our way.Jamihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11049138813340800745noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-4994820325861861132009-04-02T11:11:00.000-06:002009-04-02T11:11:00.000-06:00Melinda- thanks for understanding! I knew we were...Melinda- thanks for understanding! I knew we were true friends.<BR/><BR/>Heidi- Good plan. Now to implement it!<BR/><BR/>TentCamper- Not thinking that would be a turn on for me. Just saying. ALthough, I know that he does need release and I AM his wife. <BR/><BR/>Daddy Geek Boy- Glad you came for a visit. I know that men are wired differently. <BR/><BR/>Hey peeps, I love a good romp in the hay, too. Just saying that I am also an emotional lover too and kissing meets my emotional needs just as well (sometimes).MakingChangeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08174581407180710720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-52246974753750094122009-04-02T10:55:00.000-06:002009-04-02T10:55:00.000-06:00Heidi...now that's just mean!Heidi...now that's just mean!DGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01302995272029761401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-73880592543187252332009-04-02T10:53:00.000-06:002009-04-02T10:53:00.000-06:00Get kissy with him at a time and place that can't ...Get kissy with him at a time and place that can't possibly lead to further intimacy. Woo hoo!Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12660156433881882098noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-91472020843981695122009-04-02T10:52:00.000-06:002009-04-02T10:52:00.000-06:00You know, it may be weird, but my marriage has alw...You know, it may be weird, but my marriage has always been more playful. Like there's plenty of snuggling, tickling, hugging, kissing, but even when we were dating, we never had hours of make out sessions. I'm sure some psychologist could get hours of analyzation off of that!The Blonde Duckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00085499120024055465noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-91614658225794767802009-04-02T10:50:00.000-06:002009-04-02T10:50:00.000-06:00Hey there...Have been invited by Shelle-Blok to co...Hey there...Have been invited by Shelle-Blok to come on over and throw in my two cents on this here blog of yours. Nice site. Mind if I make myself comfortable? <BR/><BR/>Here's the deal, I love kissing. But it automatically triggers the system and I start to want more. I can't help it. Probably stems from my teenage years, when a guy keeps trying to push things further. It may not be right, but unfortunately it's the way I'm wired.<BR/><BR/>So yes kissing is awesome, but I'd like to know that kissing will lead to something. Maybe not right away. A good make out session can be good foreplay for things that come hours later...or that night. Whenever.DGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01302995272029761401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-30732030048813782522009-04-02T10:47:00.000-06:002009-04-02T10:47:00.000-06:00I was going to say almost exactly what your husban...I was going to say almost exactly what your husband did. ...That I KNOW he wet home and pleasured himself ...or endured a few hours of 'blue balls.' Either way, I don't think that is something that a married man (or woman) should have to go through. I am not scared to admit that I play with myself sometimes, but if I get hot and heavy with my woman...she knows that a man's body needs a release. Women do not have that build up. If you had your make out session and then agreed to lay down next to him and watch while he masturbates...maybe that could become a turn on for both of you. Just sayin!TentCamperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00911767583033104298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-90342865880388411532009-04-02T10:36:00.000-06:002009-04-02T10:36:00.000-06:00Hmmm. We are VERY affectionate here Always kisse...Hmmm. We are VERY affectionate here Always kisses when he walks in the door, or leaves. I kinda think if your man is getting enough of what he wants/needs, he is more than glad to accomadate your needs. I know Matt has said many times, he LOVES to make me happy. He knows if I am happy.... well, I tend to make him happy. lol I knew he was smart. ;o)<BR/><BR/>So, many nights I get JUST a back rub,or a nice tushy rub, do you know how nice it feels to have your butt rubbed. lol it does. <BR/><BR/>And then he in returns knows in the morning is his turn. We tend to have moring sex. lol Just to tired or kids, etc at night. But can manage a nice kissing/back rub session as I drift off to sleep. And he goes off to work happy... thinking about me.Misstyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03677390785575744116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-49009326813913209542009-04-02T10:21:00.000-06:002009-04-02T10:21:00.000-06:00Julie, I don't think it sounds selfish, sometimes ...Julie, I don't think it sounds selfish, sometimes we put ourselves through "pain" for his satisfaction, so it could go both ways everyonce in awhile, yo? <BR/>We could make out with the best of them when we were dating too, now though? I'm just too tired. hahahaMelindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11738664615930618450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-35809282869040874552009-04-02T10:20:00.000-06:002009-04-02T10:20:00.000-06:00I get ya YoungBlood...and NOW I get your husband.....I get ya YoungBlood...and NOW I get your husband...my POOR GUY. :)<BR/><BR/>It's good to have his point of view also...only fair! :)Shelle-BlokThoughtshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05118555873275829720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-27454179781407914622009-04-02T10:01:00.000-06:002009-04-02T10:01:00.000-06:00So, I'm a little worried that you all think that I...So, I'm a little worried that you all think that I am only in this for the kissing and sometimes I "let" hubby have his way with me. Not true. I do love to be with him, just miss those oh-so-powerfully-wonderfully-blissful make-out sessions.<BR/><BR/>I told hubby what this post was going to be about and he decided to give me the in into his mind. He didn't want to speak for all men/husbands, but for him- this is the reason. <BR/><BR/>Before we were married we would kiss for hours. (I told him, ya, I know, I was there, remember?) Well, afterward, because he didn't "release the tension" he had many hours of painful "reflection" alone. No, he isn't into the self-gratification, so he endured the pain. Now he thinks, hey, I'm married and why put himself through the pain?!<BR/><BR/>Okay, that makes sense, but I miss it, and sometimes wouldn't my happiness be worth the pain? WOW! That sounds selfish!MakingChangeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08174581407180710720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-87712185417021163262009-04-02T08:53:00.000-06:002009-04-02T08:53:00.000-06:00Sooo true! What's wrong with a little cuddling an...Sooo true! What's wrong with a little cuddling and smooching now and then? If that happens around here most times my hubby is like "alright! I'm getting some." @@ Whatever dude. lolvaleriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10591185033291457798noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-21658061827391596222009-04-02T08:42:00.000-06:002009-04-02T08:42:00.000-06:00See...this post is RIGHT up my alley. I get accus...See...this post is RIGHT up my alley. I get accused all of the time about not being INTIMATE enough...cause I'm not really a touchy feely person. Ya know?<BR/><BR/>But when I was dating my husband...we touched and petted and whatever else we could within our bounds.<BR/><BR/>So I was extremely touchy when it came to him.<BR/><BR/>But I did notice that pattern after we were married that if we began to do those fun things...such as experimental kissing, necking, petting, cuddling, spooning, hugging...it always led to the BEDROOM.<BR/><BR/>Sometimes...um...I don't want to do that...I just want to be touched and loved, but not LOVED.<BR/><BR/>But then sometimes I'm like Natasha...and I dont' want to have to mess with all the foreplay...but that is usually in the morning when MORNING breath comes into play!<BR/><BR/>Just saying.<BR/><BR/>CaJoh--I'm impressed...do you think you are in the minority?Shelle-BlokThoughtshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05118555873275829720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-40691133037091189622009-04-02T08:12:00.000-06:002009-04-02T08:12:00.000-06:00CaJoh - I have to chime in here even though today ...CaJoh - I have to chime in here even though today is Youndbloods show :)<BR/>I'd just tell her. I can't think of a woman who'd mind being asked to just cuddle and make-out!<BR/>Well, except Natasha ;)Andreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08342109839956458589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-49068860672746643682009-04-02T07:56:00.000-06:002009-04-02T07:56:00.000-06:00I'm right there with you. I find it strange that s...I'm right there with you. I find it strange that sometimes I just want to cuddle or make out too. Odd to think that a man wants to just be intimate every now and then. I just wish I knew how to be subtle enough to let her know without coming right out and saying it.Cajohhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17705931109877069830noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-39347302672520195832009-04-02T06:24:00.000-06:002009-04-02T06:24:00.000-06:00OMG no kidding! And my husband wonders why I'm not...OMG no kidding! And my husband wonders why I'm not very affectionate. Well, if he didn't get the mind to run off to the sack every single time we kissed I might be more inclined. It's a constant battle here in our house.Tiffanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13866427556365110189noreply@blogger.com