tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post309105790795245011..comments2023-12-25T11:56:28.042-07:00Comments on In The Real World Venus vs. Mars: Missy Talks About Sex part 2Shelle-BlokThoughtshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05118555873275829720noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-12382658041711259862009-08-21T14:47:10.892-06:002009-08-21T14:47:10.892-06:00so sorry to chime in late here. Hubby has been pl...so sorry to chime in late here. Hubby has been playing a video game all day.<br /><br />Our sex life is better than average as well. We are at 3 or 4 times a week. And with 2 little kids running around, that's actually pretty good.<br /><br />I don't have sex if I am not in the mood. It just doesn't work for me. <br /><br />I'm so glad everyone like the post. I was totally hoping some husbands would read this too.Missyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10648325812333011430noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-21945565843447796662009-08-20T14:36:50.000-06:002009-08-20T14:36:50.000-06:00All good points.
We had a rough patch after Mini...All good points. <br /><br />We had a rough patch after Minion 2 was born because I was so TIRED all the time. Which, of course, led to stress, and environment and fighting issues! <br /><br />I think if it weren't for the fact that the ZenHusband and I have great communication habits, we might have had an even rougher time than we did. <br /><br />Good communication is key!OneZenMomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00764231117789511983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-42142385445996924442009-08-20T12:46:53.574-06:002009-08-20T12:46:53.574-06:00Great Post!! I'm with Shelle in that if my hub...Great Post!! I'm with Shelle in that if my hubby is wound up, we can have the worst fights, so I've found that the easiest thing to do is have sex and then resolve the problems. <br /><br />Maybe I'm a freak, but with my husband traveling alot, once a week makes for a long week. When he's home we don't have sex every day, but at least every other day. <br /><br />Also, when he's in the mood and I'm really not, he will rub my back or run a bath and normally it will get me in the mood. <br /><br />A girls night out does wonders for me and for him.....Stephnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-26826010599415328812009-08-20T10:41:59.269-06:002009-08-20T10:41:59.269-06:00I think your right on - so many things can slow do...I think your right on - so many things can slow down a sexlife. And when you reconize them, you can deal with them easier, and not let them get in the way. You can have all the excuses you want - kids, work, stress, headache. But really you need to make it a priority. It really is the glue that holds a relationship together.<br /><br />Slightly more than once a week?? Not here. lol We will say its a good 3-5 times more than that. <br /><br />And a great secret, when your man is getting what he needs without asking... the world is yours! lol When a guy is happy with his sexlife, there isn't anything he won't do for you. He is a happy camper, and you will see the benefits. I promise!<br /><br /><br />great post!Misstyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03677390785575744116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-92043022676402426212009-08-20T10:00:31.127-06:002009-08-20T10:00:31.127-06:00I really really want my husband to read this! It ...I really really want my husband to read this! It totally hit home. Thanks!Bloggin Bettyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06950661806813003566noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-51883184730214121542009-08-20T08:42:59.176-06:002009-08-20T08:42:59.176-06:00I think i'm going to add to the stress thing. ...I think i'm going to add to the stress thing. When I'M stressed for SURE I don't feel like romping in bed...<br /><br />BUT... If both of us are stressed I have found that the key to unstressing is SEX for a guy. When he's less stressed, so am I. Most of the time anyway.<br /><br />A guy NEEDS sex. It's true, there's been studies and since I found this little seed of truth out, our life is MUCH better! No Seriously.<br /><br />I almost can solve any disagreement with him after we've had sex. Whether it's morning or evening. If we go a couple of days without sex, my guy honestly becomes like a WIND UP jack-in-the-box... But as long as I stay consistent in the sex department... we usually are pretty well off.<br /><br />I am the type of person that feeds of others energy. If my guys wound up, so am I... I can pick a fight with the best of them, but I married a pretty mellow guy, so as long as I keep him mellow, our relationship is a lot smoother.<br /><br />Okay, did I just repeat myself like 3 times?<br /><br />Anyway... Great post MISSY! I want to say AMEN and AMEN!<br /><br />letting me have my Girl Nights Out and my work out times leaves me a happy girl!<br /><br />My guy use to complain about sex and pout also and I also told him that it was a turn off... but since I read that book that explained a guys physiological need... he has NUTTIN to complain about! :)<br /><br />Where IS everyone???Shelle-BlokThoughtshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05118555873275829720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-59788564372601697892009-08-20T07:44:35.143-06:002009-08-20T07:44:35.143-06:00My favorite topic. I'll be back to comment. ...My favorite topic. I'll be back to comment. Hopefully we can all have some comment fun today!MakingChangeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08174581407180710720noreply@blogger.com