tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post909701294276863134..comments2023-12-25T11:56:28.042-07:00Comments on In The Real World Venus vs. Mars: Going Overboard for the Holidays Venus StyleShelle-BlokThoughtshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05118555873275829720noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-14548854888322990642009-12-17T21:53:31.921-07:002009-12-17T21:53:31.921-07:00I used to be bad. But the longer we went the more ...I used to be bad. But the longer we went the more I started to dislike the season. In fact I started to despise the season. This is the season I chose to get married - that is how much I loved it. As we had children and the stress added up I decided it was time to change. This has been the most stress free season yet and it is because we cut all gifts to adults. (except our parents) We went from buying 35 gifts (outside of our kids) to buying 4 gifts. It was actually fun to go look for gifts last night.<br /><br />I also have 4 or 6 totes of Christmas stuff that I didn't put up. I do not feel that it made our house any less festive - rather, it made me less stressed. <br />Me less stressed is a good thing.<br /><br />What I did go overboard on is NOT shopping. I have put it off so long now that it IS becoming last minute.Just Juleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09842126422147340390noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-71028992600528008382009-12-17T11:45:09.320-07:002009-12-17T11:45:09.320-07:00Wow, out shopping and busy the last few days, and ...Wow, out shopping and busy the last few days, and I stop over to a TON of reading. lol <br /><br />But I am with you - I LOVE to shop, decorate, bake, cook and whatever I can think of during the holidays! Matt is great with me doing what I need to do. ;o) lol<br /><br />I take care of it all. He takes care of me. It works for us.<br /><br />We also try and pick a family or two to help out each year. <br /><br />And for D.E. many of us know the real reason for Christmas. We just decide to add some extra fun along with it.Misstyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03677390785575744116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-63416143506473227022009-12-17T10:57:56.130-07:002009-12-17T10:57:56.130-07:00Great post I need my hubby to be more like hubman....Great post I need my hubby to be more like hubman. He is just as bad as me and we buy waaaay too much for the kids and others. We are both such big givers and we both just get all caught up in the hoilday and give and give and give! <br /><br />But on the other hand we also give to alot of others and cheritys too.Hair Bows & Guitar Pickshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12777608222288520089noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-80812556970301978032009-12-17T10:34:20.708-07:002009-12-17T10:34:20.708-07:00A friend once shared the following quote w/ me whi...A friend once shared the following quote w/ me which sums up what I try to keep in mind during the holidays. <br /><br />"This Christmas, mend a quarrel. Seek out a forgotten friend. Dismiss suspicion and replace it with trust. Write a letter. Give a soft answer. ... Keep a promise. Forgo a grudge. Forgive an enemy. Apologize. ... Laugh a little more. Express your gratitude. Welcome a stranger. Gladden the heart of a child. ... Speak your love and then speak it again."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-73845628862340288302009-12-17T10:23:12.212-07:002009-12-17T10:23:12.212-07:00I wouldn't necessarily term it "overboard...I wouldn't necessarily term it "overboard", but I do enjoy the decorations & lights. There are some decorations that we collect from Germany, and I like to "add" one each year.<br /><br />I probably go a bit overboard on the advent calendars, mainly so that there is no fighting over the treats.<br /><br />Holiday music (various types), probably overboard, but we enjoy it.<br /><br />I like to do the St. Nikolaus day tradition (thanks to my Swiss heritage) where the family puts their shoes out on 12/6 for a treat or toy, or other surprise.<br /><br />Treats, baking and chocolate - maybe a little overboard. Sugar-free January always seems to be a good idea after the fact.<br /><br />We try not to go overboard on gifts, but I do like to take care in the selection & presentation of them.<br /><br />We like to pick a family and do the 12 days of Christmas from a Secret Santa. The kids probably go overboard in planning how to remain incognito.<br /><br />Mostly, I enjoy the time spent with family, friends and neighbors, and the reason for the season (for me).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-90424181183014841452009-12-17T09:22:31.456-07:002009-12-17T09:22:31.456-07:00Great post, Veronica. You're sweet and thought...Great post, Veronica. You're sweet and thoughtful nature shines through. It's been a rough couple of weeks around Casa Zen and I've had a hard time staying in the "holiday spirit", but your cheery post has helped put me in a more chipper mood. Thanks. ;)OneZenMomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00764231117789511983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-22231997500047912972009-12-17T08:46:42.903-07:002009-12-17T08:46:42.903-07:00David I thought it was pretty funny also...you wer...David I thought it was pretty funny also...you were talking about the dunce cap comment right?<br /><br />I say Amen to WV...I've been saying that all along.<br /><br />As far as irritated and indignant? Nah...not to bad, just more roll of the eyes and shake of the head.<br /><br />But a right good sport of you to say sorry :)<br /><br />Later DavidShelle-BlokThoughtshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05118555873275829720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-34510570090512336332009-12-17T08:35:49.531-07:002009-12-17T08:35:49.531-07:00David Edward
Shelle
This is so unfaiiiiir!!!!
H...David Edward<br /><br />Shelle<br /><br />This is so unfaiiiiir!!!!<br /><br />HE started it.<br /><br />WannabeVirginia W. said...<br /><br />Quote - <br />"So far, I enjoy reading the banter and have visited the site frequently because of it. So I say, let them banter so long as there is no name calling or threats<br />- Unquote<br /><br />Shelle's growing indignation and irritation is quite entertaining too.<br /><br />But enough is enough and I will retire from this thread.<br /><br />Sorry Shelle<br />Sorry hubman<br />Sorry everybody<br /><br />David Edward the umm - never mind.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-29448749646954928982009-12-17T08:15:11.781-07:002009-12-17T08:15:11.781-07:00Dang I'm glad I'm a scroge. ASM that seem...Dang I'm glad I'm a scroge. ASM that seems like frickin a lot of work to me!<br /><br />Sheeesh. I couldn't do any of that I don't imagine.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-23886823566427918192009-12-17T07:46:02.359-07:002009-12-17T07:46:02.359-07:00I think the banter between David, the really reall...I think the banter between David, the really really really fertile one and Hubman is quite funny because it is a debate from differing points of view- minus the name calling. I can see how Hubman gets irritated when his ideas are challenged,(no offense but that is how it leaps out from the pages) - albeit some of the challenges and points made by the other debater was completely ludicrous (response to the man pill). So far, I enjoy reading the banter and have visited the site frequently because of it. So I say, let them banter so long as there is no name calling or threats. It is a nice break from all the half naked photos that are sometimes should just not be posted.WannabeVirginia W.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16507756727246102557noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-39656820161181128212009-12-17T07:20:26.082-07:002009-12-17T07:20:26.082-07:00ASM, I too help out with charitable organizations ...ASM, I too help out with charitable organizations as I can. This year, I have volunteered several times to ring the bells and have also been helping pass out food at the local Community Harvest food bank. My kids have come along to help, which makes it that much more enjoyable. They get to people-watch, see others give as they choose, and learn a bit about how charities work to make things a bit more tolerable for those on the downside of advantage.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-90012740625753608062009-12-17T07:10:47.285-07:002009-12-17T07:10:47.285-07:00Or indirect for that matter!Or indirect for that matter!Shelle-BlokThoughtshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05118555873275829720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-65174543559466649692009-12-17T07:09:33.659-07:002009-12-17T07:09:33.659-07:00Seriously both of you quit it.
David if you have ...Seriously both of you quit it.<br /><br />David if you have anything personally to say to Hubman and Hubman to David then don't say it here take it to Hubmans blog or elsewhere where you guys can battle out your personal attacks on a post relevant to attacking each other.<br /><br />Thanks<br /><br />Next step is comment moderation and a dunce cap where you will have to stick your nose in a corner!<br /><br />Other than that feel free to comment as long as there is no name calling or direct personal attacks.Shelle-BlokThoughtshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05118555873275829720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-47837374752988044082009-12-17T06:32:10.745-07:002009-12-17T06:32:10.745-07:00David-
it is true that I am no longer a contributo...David-<br />it is true that I am no longer a contributor, that is someone who authors posts on this blog. However, I may continue to read and comment, especially on a day like today, when my wife is the author, contrary to your insinuation otherwise.<br /><br />Hubman the proudly infertileHubmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12080481657336478578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-45588651587982519902009-12-17T05:56:25.932-07:002009-12-17T05:56:25.932-07:00On the other hand David as a quick side note I lov...On the other hand David as a quick side note I love your response to yesterday's group therapy post and your advice for Jessica and your relevant comments today about going overboard for Christmas the limit of 50 cards for your office made me laugh.<br /><br />I work with a bunch of guys and so I'm lucky if I see ONE decoration up during ANY holiday!<br /><br />Cheek of God--your wife sounds amazing. I wish I had that drive or let alone an ounce of creativity! :)Shelle-BlokThoughtshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05118555873275829720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-9022305694146090932009-12-17T05:39:49.175-07:002009-12-17T05:39:49.175-07:00David. Can you drop it with Hubman please?
I d...David. Can you drop it with Hubman please? <br /><br />I don't know why but none of these comments have come to my phone. I can't delete any personal attacks until I get home.<br /><br />But for the sake of my sanity. <br /><br />Stick with discussing and let go of the rest...please??? I'm begging you.<br /><br />My husband, like David, has a bit of a scrooge like spirit about Christmas. Hates to put up lights, not fond of Christmas cards at all, and wishes that people would stick to the real meaning of Christmas.<br /><br />I on the other hand, like you Veronica, tend to donate to every sob story or charity that is presented to me (cry every time) and provide a Christmas to a family struggling.<br /><br />I like the lights and decoration and music.<br /><br />And if my husband wasn't around to remind me to put a cap on buying gifts...I'd buy every darn gift they wanted. But my guy puts me on a budget and makes me stick to it. I allow this because I like to be able to afford my hair appointment come Jan!<br /><br />Great post Veronica :)Shelle-BlokThoughtshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05118555873275829720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-25178764323048693742009-12-17T05:32:17.780-07:002009-12-17T05:32:17.780-07:00thecheekofgod: Your wife sounds incredibly crafty...thecheekofgod: Your wife sounds incredibly crafty. I am incredibly jealous. We have always kept the presents to a minimum. Can't say the same for the grandparents, but I find that you cannot stop the grandparents.Another Suburban Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16120153702254735445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-29875534317548137852009-12-17T05:27:01.539-07:002009-12-17T05:27:01.539-07:00David Edward
Off to lunch - but 'I'll be ...David Edward<br /><br />Off to lunch - but 'I'll be back'<br /><br />David Edward the really really really fertileAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-79438257134124446332009-12-17T05:21:44.630-07:002009-12-17T05:21:44.630-07:00Reply to Another Suburban Mom
Oh I thought you me...Reply to Another Suburban Mom<br /><br />Oh I thought you meant just for Christmas, like my dear old mum, though my wife loathed Christmas, and sent a handful of cards and was really annoyed if some one distant sent a card to which she had to return.<br /><br />Reply to huwoman<br /><br />Quote from hubwomas's blog - Rather than respond, I brought his comments to Shelle’s attention, since it’s her blog. Based on my complete dis-satisfaction with how the subsequent chat went, I’ve decided to quit as a contributor to In The Real World: Venus vs. Mars, - Unquote<br /><br />Wow, that didn't last long did it? and it's “dissatisfaction”<br /><br />David Edward the really fertileAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-59049562866593642732009-12-17T05:16:39.608-07:002009-12-17T05:16:39.608-07:00ASM,
My wife is sort of the same way when it com...ASM, <br /><br />My wife is sort of the same way when it comes to the festivities and rituals of the holiday. She's a crafty sort and each year makes the most adorable little ornaments to give to the teachers at school. They are always different, and she loves taking the time to show others how much we appreciate their efforts on behalf of the kids. <br /><br />And she does love decorating. We're a one-tree family, so she goes all out, with different sections of the tree reserved for ornaments from a specific year. Walking around the tree is like a stroll down memory lane.<br /><br />This year, more than any other year, we are taking the whole "PRESENTS" hoopla out of the holiday. I love to give gifts, and I do so throughout the entire year, so Christmastime has become more and more about just being together and enjoy the company. <br /><br />Sounds like you guys are set for a wonderful celebration. Enjoy!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-81895282835108883842009-12-17T05:08:56.197-07:002009-12-17T05:08:56.197-07:00David Edward
Yes - word has just gone around, it ...David Edward<br /><br />Yes - word has just gone around, it has been noticed and the limit of 50 reaffirmed.<br /><br />PS. why do I get the impression that the above contribution was written by hubman?<br /><br />David Edward the fertileAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-58528601319412236092009-12-17T05:08:07.294-07:002009-12-17T05:08:07.294-07:00David Edward: Thank you for your comments. In the ...David Edward: Thank you for your comments. In the interest of clarity, Where I mention shopping all year, that also includes birthdays, weddings, baby showers, et, al. <br /><br />Hubman: I know you do baby. Thanks! And yes I do love shopping for everyone.Another Suburban Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16120153702254735445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-88408541015109254792009-12-17T05:05:25.717-07:002009-12-17T05:05:25.717-07:00David Edward
"I shop for, select, wrap and m...David Edward<br /><br />"I shop for, select, wrap and mail all of the gifts for everyone all year long"<br /><br />Wow - it takes me one day. And I buy a pack of identical cards and give one out when I receive one. I don't think I go overboard - although last year the office became so choked in cards strung everywhere we could not see or move. The company fire officer came round eventually and we had a limit of 50 cards each, which cause some indignation from those whose card were taken down!<br /><br />Every one has already got their 50 now and some, so it starting to go overboard again.<br /><br />David Edward the fertileAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-60899094572612997402009-12-17T05:03:54.725-07:002009-12-17T05:03:54.725-07:00I appreciate our gift-buying arrangement more than...I appreciate our gift-buying arrangement more than you know. And let's not fool anyone, you enjoy shopping for the family, yours and mine!<br /><br />I'm glad that I can temper your impulses, it's probably better for both of us.<br /><br />David Edward- my step-father is an Episcopal bishop- Veronica and I and our kids are well aware of the true meaning of Christmas.<br /><br />You sure are proud of your fertility.Hubmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12080481657336478578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3251212850644469714.post-56677231369010607052009-12-17T04:51:33.470-07:002009-12-17T04:51:33.470-07:00David Edward
Christmas = Christ Mass, as in the c...David Edward<br /><br />Christmas = Christ Mass, as in the celebration of Christ's birth.<br /><br />Not many people know that now days.<br /><br />David Edward the fertileAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com