Today we have a new Male Blogger at Venus. Cameron from Get the Stink Off is often funny and always real. He is a husband and father of two young children who proclaims himself to be a computer nerd, power napper, fire starter (anyone else scared by that one?) and keeper of the lawn. I'm not sure what else he might be but I look forward to finding out. Please make him welcome with his first post, his take on signals and then head over to his blog for his take on everything else.
I think I can speak for most men when I say, "We don't get hints. Not even a little bit."
Perhaps the wife is feeling frisky, and she wants us to retire to the bedroom to have a little fun. She might sit down next to me, and twirl her hair, maybe put her hand on my leg.
My response: What's up?
From that point maybe she'll turn and sit on top of me, straddling me and giving me a passionate kiss.
Me: I can't see the Tv.
Wife: Sooooorrrrryyyy....I just wanted to love on you.
Now, the easy fix to this dilemma, in my opinion, is for my wife to simply say, "Hey, let's go do it!" I'd be all, "Let's go...what are you waiting for?" But she'll never say that, and I suspect most of you women won't either.
Why not? My thinking is, if you want something, just be blunt. Us men, we are WAY too stupid for hints and innuendos. We need it told to us, very slowly, using small words.