Monday, August 24, 2009

Are we talking sex still?

So as not to disappoint anyone I had to get in on the sex talk...again. Cuz, apparently I think about it a lot.

What do you do to prep for that special time? Shower? Put on cologne? Strip down? Suck on a .... Breath mint. (sick minds)

Well, lately Hubby has been in heaven. He knows the hormones are whacked and I'm up for anything every night. I know if he is up for me waking him up when I get home from work if I smell cologne on him when I climb into bed. Good signals going on here.

I have a sister who has a code word she and her hubby use to signal they are feeling frisky.

Some people put out the red light on their front porch saying they are open for business.

What do you do to let your significant other know the welcome mat is out?

12 comments:

IWA (e - va) said...

We ususally start giving each other the eye at dinner.. or when he asks me how my day went, I reply, "Long!".... or "I have a headache!" and he usually understands how to fix the headache!

or I just drop all the clothes and start sucking on a ..... Breath mint! hahahaha! Youngblood.. that was classic! You're hilarious!

ZenMom said...

I've never been much for subtle.

I usually go with a direct approach, like, "I'll be having sex later, care to join me?"

He's always, ahem, up for it, so, just jumping him whenever the mood strikes works, too. ;)

Steph said...

ZenMom- Love the direct approach!!

When hubby isn't traveling during the week, I normally go up and take a shower or either say, I'm going to be naked in a few if you're interested & like ZenMom- he's always ready!!

Youngblood4ever said...

ZEN and Steph, I am SO going to use that. Tonight! Can't wait to see his reaction.

Iwa- I thought "I have a headache" meant no sex. Wow! I was totally misinformed. I might have to try that one. "Um, lover, I have a headache. Care to fix it for me?" Ya, it will work.

Steph said...

Youngblood- If I have a headache, I will say, I have a headache and need some loving. Can you help me?

The answer is always yes!! lol!!

Youngblood4ever said...

Steph- VERY EXCELLENT! I'm keeping that one.

Stephanie Faris said...

Ours is, "Are you going to take a shower?" My boyfriend has a thing about having to be freshly showered before sex. It's out of consideration for me but it can take away spontaneity sometimes!

Shelle-BlokThoughts said...

LOL... you guys are awesome. Mine are pretty much set up. He wants it all.the.time, but his favorite is mornings. I usually just like it at night... so we compromised, sort of, we do it both times.

People wonder why I never get any sleep! :)

If I'm in anything other than my G's... he knows he's gettin some.

ZenMom said...

Oh Shelle, you are a better woman than I am, love. Hubby would love mornings. But I am SO not a morning person. I compromise with the occasional nooners. ;)

Southern Sage said...

Hey baby whattabout a shot of leg, wing ding or tater usually does it for us! She definately has a free pass on waking me up!

This Mom said...

My hubby will take it any time as well. (MEN it is always about sex) All I have to do is lay on the bed in my sexy... whatever and he knows he is getting some.

Tiaras said...

oh - this is funny!! - so easy, my hubbie will say, "why don't you put {insert child's name} in their own bed tonight"

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