I was thinking about this the other day how hubby and my fighting has changed since we were first married.
I no longer throw forks (hee hee), and I don't yell as much.
Um...ok I do like to yell still, but I've learned to curb my stubborness and not hold my anger forever. Hubby is a much cleaner fighter. When he's mad he just goes and chops wood for an hour. Or into his man cave (garage) to work on his cars.
He also is almost always the first to say he is sorry. He probably takes the blame for most fights, even though I know that I was probably wrong, or just being grouchy.
I have a hard time saying the actual words "I am sorry". I don't know why. Maybe I don't want to admit defeat? Could be.
We are going on 13 years in July and I couldn't be happier with the choice I made.
Sometimes things can get crazy, but at the end of the day, I know that he'll still love me and I can count on him always, for anything.