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There was a comment on an earlier post about why men always have to instigate sex and women are the ones to shoot the idea down. I'd like to put a different spin on this question if I may and then you can tell me if I hit the mark or if I'm way off on my thinking.
I grew up in a strictly religious household where sex outside of marriage was a MAJOR no-no. Following those rules, and being religious myself I did not engage in said activities until my wedding night.
Having said this I must say that I did engage in some seriously sweet (and by sweet I mean totally awesome) make-out sessions.
Hubby and I could kiss with the best of them. We are talking hours. Soft, hard, passionate, gently-sweet, you name it, we did it (in the kissing area). No, our mouths did not wander away from the neck and face. Keep your minds clean. I already told you I was a moral-kind-of girl.
Here is when I got shafted in the kissing arena. As soon as we got married, we are talking that night, no more JUST kissing. If I instigate kissing with the hubby I had to be prepared for the full monty. There is no half-way, no nice make-out sessions. It ALWAYS leads to sex.
I am a very affectionate person. My parents were always affectionate with each other and so I have always loved to kiss. Since my first kiss at 11 I was hooked. Don't mind the fact that I didn't kiss anyone after that until I was 16. But after 16 one could say I was a lip-hussy. I love the feel of kissing, the tingling I get all over and the yummy stuff that goes along with kissing. So, I knew hubby and I were meant to be when we could go for hours on end and never get tired of it.
So, if I want to kiss hubby now I need to be ready for everything. WHY? Why can't I just reminisce about our dating days. Why do I have to feel obligated to deliver the goods when I start kissing ya? Why can't it just end there?
Don't get me wrong, I have my own hormones and I love to be intimate, but there are times all I need is a little lippy-love!