First of all, my wife wants to have a GABILLION kids. I, on the other hand, I'm pretty OK with our current number, which is two.
So, every time Mrs. Stinkoff and I get a little frisky, well I go searching for a condom. Mrs. Stinkoff gets dejected at this, I'm about 199% sure she's hoping I will forgo the condom in the heat of the moment. And from the point on, well let's just say the friskiness just ain't so frisky. She's dejected because we're not making a baby, and I'm dejected because we're not getting as freaky as we should be at this point. In other words, the mood is pretty much gone. Either way, it's a lose-lose. She's wanting to make a baby, and I'm wanting to make sweet, sweet nookie, and neither one of us are getting what we want.
We've talked about it (many times), and we've come to the conclusion that we'll NEVER AGREE on this. I've told her, "Maybe one more kid, but only when we are more financially secure," which is not even close to a reality right now. Her, on the other hand, she wants them now, and lots of them.
Any words of wisdom from you guys and gals out there?